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“Dance from the bridge. Mama, I tell you what is needed?” - These words of his son's mother said, and then, when companies have high credit loans, and money lost.

Thousands of distressed debt

Port of living in the family for several months living in tension - and stood over two decades, Nerijus son threatened to commit suicide.

Although family members try to help him, and even for him to repay debts, All of this changed situation. Within a short time the young man back into debt.

“The, the son of borrowing like crazy from all the companies issuing loans to high-speed, recently learned - just before the New Year. We received a threatening letter, that fails to make payments. Nerijus then confessed, that it is lending money to various companies already owe 10 thousand. LTL”, - Said of despair infected young mother Nijole.

Woman said, the son was able to take small loans from ten in the country operating in the small business credit dividing.

“He borrowed four to six hundred litas. Apparently, he would not grant more loans. Only one company at once lent him a thousand LTL. However, the total debt incurred significant”, - Tears and the excitement she is spoke.

Lost money betand

She told, that as soon as it is aware of the son of the shoulders the burden of oppressive loans, began asking, where is that money has helped.

Then revealed, that all borrowings is constructing a Betting companies. Woman suspect, that part of the money lost son and casino - many people saw it there.

“When we learned about the problem, We were shocked. Of the closest friends, collateral to borrow and lenders will refund. Because of the high interest debt is continually increasing on a daily basis, So we could not delay”, - Sincere woman.

Nijole admitted, jog baimindamasi, he had to take loans nepultų, son, deprived of all personal documents, bank cards.

Took another 8 thousand. LTL

After a while it seemed, that things got, and the young man stopped borrow and play, But last week, showed, that he again took credit.

“Sleep did not come back, I rushed skambinėti. Originally did not hang up, then somehow get through. Then he told me, that are in trouble again, prasiskolino go to pridūrė, that will never come back. He said he wanted to commit suicide. I do not know, what to do, How to help your child? Torn heart. Scary, the hands in front of you nepakeltų”, - Concerns about hidden Klaipeda.

Revealed, the son of the same companies to borrow again within a month of 8 thousand. LTL.

Bailiffs intimidated by her mother

Most women can not understand it, that man, without any identity documents, able to obtain loans.

Why is the money lending companies have no control over the country - the money they lend to any person without verifying the data on?

“I do not know, as he again took the credit, After all, does not have any documents - all to me. It's not just our family tragedy, such borrowing is a lot of people. Credit card companies even do not check the data, they do not care, that the client already has taken a lot of other credit institutions”, - Baisėjosi woman.

Pasach if, son's salary is now a thousand dollars a month, but this amount is insufficient even to cover interest on loans. However, by lending money to companies that did not pay any attention.

Nijole already several times zigzagging all quick to issue credits to companies, where workers asked for more Nerijus nebeskolinti. However, managers who work there openly mocked a woman saying,, that her son has long been an adult, so for their own actions in response.

“Kur jis beeitų, everywhere and no one can borrow the curb - Nursultan adult, work, so readily granted him a loan. Some of those lenders asked, what they do, when nebeatgaus loans, I said, they cold-bloodedly, that will apply to the bailiffs”, - Recalled the woman.

Items brought to the pawnshop

Nijole says, that her son is addicted to gambling, but still can not believe the way.

“Now I understand, that he really is sick, it is necessary to treat, otherwise his tragic fate awaits. But never in life I would not have any suspects, that it is dependent on something. Son completely smoke, drink, work, study - it looks like a normal person, but the reason behind illness. I do not know, how to save. Gal greenhouse Patar? Why the family is unable to make laws, žabojančių lenders?” - Ašarodama women were asked.

Son aware of the problems, Nijole learned and, Spit to the quagmire of gambling involved still studying at school, save some money for lunch given by, and then they lose.

Ran out of money, He received the pawnshop, where to pledge personal belongings - cell phones, tape recorders or other.

Svetlana Zamkovaja, Klaipeda Center for Addictive Disorders of the chief doctor

Gambling addiction is not, it is a pathological, which must be treated. Typically, these people are always going recline, but they often fail to, so when the stock loses money, savings, they begin to borrow. How much I had to communicate with the pathology with patients, their debt is incomprehensibly large. Prasilošusių although many people are really, but to us they turn very rarely. This year from gambling so far only one person gydėme. Apparently, Patients come to us to shame, and they make it so no one can. The man must feel that a critical threshold, and to understand, that want to recover. If the patient does not want treatment, no he doesn't. However, in this case I would advise parents to talk with his son and offer him in good faith to reach us. Jie turi jam paaiškinti, that it is nothing wrong with, that he is still young and it all before your eyes. Patients with pathological gambling often offer treatment permanently, but this alone is not enough. No matter how unfortunate, the pathology of the cure - one life to try to control yourself.

Gamblers Anonymous group

Klaipeda Gamblers Anonymous group Rock, which offers not only in the spit, but all the other residents of Klaipeda, experiencing addiction, nepabijoti and come to the meetings organized by.

Gamblers Anonymous meetings are held every Wednesday from 19.00 two 21.00 election. Mary Queen of Peace in Klaipėda church premises. For those, who need additional information, they can ask mobile. tel. +370 671 78781.

Manual: “Gamblers Anonymous – This society of men and women, who share their experiences, strength and hope, to help themselves and others cope with problem gambling. The only condition, To become a member of the Society – a desire to stop gambling. Gamblers Anonymous Society does not relate to any sects, tikybomis, policy, organizations or institutions. It also does not endorse any movements. Our main goal – to quit gambling and gamblers to help others do the same. Most of us are unwilling or simply unable to admit to having a problem with gambling. Nobody likes to admit he was different than all the surrounding. It is therefore not surprising, that many of us countless times desperately tried to prove, so that they can play, as playing all the other, t. according to common sense and logic. Thought, that somehow, someday be able to control their urge to gamble, plagued by every player. This belief is usually such a surprisingly strong, that leads gamblers to prison bars, insanity or even death. We realized, that first we must honestly and openly admit to yourself, that we are addicted to gambling. This is the first step towards liberation from dependence. Illusion, that are or may be the same, Like all other, required to irreversibly disappear. We have lost the ability to control their gambling. We know and understand, that none of the compulsive gambler ever more unable to control the habit. All the time we thought we were not able to recover or regain felt that their ability to, but it did not last long. Vel kartojosi nekontroliuojamo, uncontrollable periods of gaming, eventually resulted in our sorry, mind hardly perceptible degradation. We believe, that gamblers, such as we, suffering from progressive disease. Over time,, their condition is deteriorating, and never by itself does not improve. To live a happy, full life, We strive everyday matters and situations and to follow the best count of their properties, skills and some principles. Many compulsive gamblers before joining the Gamblers Anonymous, thought it morally weak, or simply “poor gamblers”. Gamblers Anonymous concept is that the essence of, that compulsive gamblers are sick, that can recover, if you will actively participate in a special program, pagelbėjusioje have many men and women, had gambling or compulsive gambling problem”.

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